There were decorations to hang and food to order.
Get this...I took this beautiful red crochet choker with beads and matching earrings for my granddaughter to wear if she didn't have a necklace. I showed it to her and she loved it and had planned on wearing it but suddenly the photographer was there telling her that SHE had a necklace that was costume jewelry that belonged to her Mother and SHE thought that it would look better.The photographer was a personal friend of a friend of the bride so this made my Granddaughter feel obligated as well as being put on the spot and she looked at me and said "Would you mind Granma?". Of course I told her that it would be fine and to wear which ever necklace she wanted that it was her wedding and her choice. I truely meant this but it really made me angry that this person, not a member of the family could have the nerve to offer another choice over her Grandmothers. I was furious but stayed cool. It was like this the entire day.
She interfered with almost everything that was going on not to mention keeping the bride and groom from the wedding party for over an hour. It was hot, 103 degrees and here they were out in the yard having photos taken. Is this the norm for wedding photos? Ugh! I just had to vent about this! Thanks for listening.
I am sorry I don't have any photos of the bride and groom until I get them downloaded from my phone. They are not as good as I am sure the professional photos will be so I promise to show you my beautiful granddaughter and her new husband as soon as I get those photos.
I had a really good visit and I enjoyed all of my family while I was there. I miss them already. It is so hard to live so far away but as my Son tells me all the time...I am the one that moved away. Sigh!
10 comments:
well, despite the photographer being so unprofessional..it sounds like you had a wonderful time!! also..I'm sure your photos will be fabulous..I have always preferred the ones taken by family and friends..they are so much more charming,and taken with love!!!Baby Ava is a doll!!! how lucky you are to have a great granddaughter!!..goodness...did you have your first child at 10?..you look WAY TO YOUNG !!!
Ann said it all!!!! And I simply CANNOT get my head wrapped around the idea you could already be a "great grand"!!!!
Whoa! Reality check!
Rose
That was a great post. There is always someone who messes us the family time. Our gd got married last year and yes, we were the grandparents but we didn't get to have much impute. But time goes by and we are just part of their bigger world now. So glad you enjoyed your ggbaby. We don't have any yet.
QMM
What a control freak! Geez!! Smack smack.
Aside from her, it does sound like you had a wonderful time and I'm happy for you. Ava June has grown so fast and is absolutely an adorable angel!! Her eyes!!
Congratulations to the happy couple!
Awww thanks for sharing Patti!
Your great granddaughter is a doll, such a blessing!!! And your necklace would have totally looked wonderful on your granddaughter matching the dress perfectly --- oh well, you did good keeping your tongue!! It was your granddaughters day and despite it all - it looks like everything turned out beautifully!
Your great granddaughter is so beautiful! Love that precious face!
As for the photographer..I must say I really dislike people like that! You should have stuck to your guns about the necklace. That was totally rude on her part!!
Sorry this happened!
Hugs
SueAnn
What a gorgeous great granddaughter, and lovely bride ! I know they were so blessed to have you there. sorry about the problems that arose, but at least you were there and the memories of a family stay forever. You are greatly blessed to be able to have and be with family! thanks for sharing your trip!
Oh Patti what a wonderful wedding story for the most part other than the photographer! But all sounds wonderful! AND A GREAT GRANDDAUGHTER!!! REALLY!!!! You are certainly not old enough for that! She is a precious angel:)
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Becky
Great granddaughter, Oh My! she's so precious! As for the photographer, I'm sending her a great big slap. SO not OK. Bless you for having way more class than she did.
I loved reading all about your granddaughter's wedding Patti. Sounds as if it was a great 'do' in spite of the pushy photographer.
My my. it doesn't seem more than 2 minutes since you told us Ava June was born Isn't she a doll now? No wonder you found it hard to leave.
Hugs xx
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